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BothInto
You already found each other

Find out what you're both into.

You answer a short set of questions. They answer the same ones from a link. Only the answers you both gave come back, and you both get the same list. Everything else stays where it was.

No account, no download: they answer in a browser tab and close it.

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ResultsYou're both into 4 things.
Shared answers4
KissingBoth into it
Cuddling afterwardsBoth into it
Slow buildupOpen to
Making outOpen to
Everything else stays privatePrivate
A synthetic preview: questions answered, compared, then a shared result screen reading "You're both into 4 things", listing Kissing, Cuddling afterwards, Slow buildup, Making out, with everything else kept private.
  • Kissing
  • Making out
  • Lots of body contact
  • Slow buildup
  • Faster pace
  • Rougher energy
  • Topping
  • Bottoming
  • Switching top / bottom
  • No anal
  • Giving oral
  • Receiving oral
  • Mutual masturbation
  • Frottage / body rubbing
  • Fingering — giving
  • Fingering — receiving
  • Chest / nipple play
  • Rimming — giving
  • Rimming — receiving
  • Using toys on a partner
  • Partner using toys on me
  • Dominant role
  • Submissive role
  • Spanking — giving
  • Spanking — receiving
  • Restraining a partner
  • Being restrained
  • Condoms for anal
  • Sexual-health conversation
  • Cuddling afterwards
How it works

Two people, one set of questions, one shared answer sheet.

31 questions, about three minutes each. Nothing to install on their side.

You're both into 3 things. The rest stays private.

The rule

Two answers line up, or nobody hears about it.

Two yeses come back as something you're both into. Any other mix of yes and maybe comes back as something you're both open to. Everything else stays private.

Nobody sees a no. Not the answer, not the category, not a hint. Skipping a question looks exactly like answering no.

What comes back for each pair of answers
Them: YesThem: MaybeThem: No
You: YesBoth into itOpen toPrivate
You: MaybeOpen toOpen toPrivate
You: NoPrivatePrivatePrivate
Live demo

Answer four. See what they said.

A synthetic partner has already answered these on the other side. Give your own answers and watch the veil come off the ones you have in common. Nothing is saved or sent.

  • Tangerine is you
  • Ice is them
  • Lit is what you share

The full sample asks the same 31 Basic questions a real invitation would. It submits nothing, keeps nothing between tabs and never reaches a shared result, so you can see exactly what you would be sending someone into.

Open the full sample
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Chemistry & pace1 / 4

Kissing

Kissing is something you want as part of the encounter.

Playing a sample. Tap an answer to take over.

A live demo: four real questions, compared in this page against a synthetic partner's answers.
The questions

Direct, so you don't have to be.

Basic is 31 questions and covers the ground most encounters need. Advanced is a saved opt-in, not a default. Every question is optional, and skipping one looks exactly like answering no.

  • Chemistry & pace
  • Roles & anal
  • Oral
  • Hands & body
  • Rimming
  • Toys
  • Power & kink
  • Setting
  • Safer sex
  • Before sex
  • Aftercare
  • KissingYes · Maybe · No
  • Slow buildupYes · Maybe · No
  • Switching top / bottomYes · Maybe · No
  • Receiving oralYes · Maybe · No
  • Dominant roleYes · Maybe · No
  • Condoms for analRequired · Prefer · Flexible · N/A
  • Where would you be comfortable meeting?My place · Your place · Hotel · Outdoors · Somewhere else
  • Cuddling afterwardsYes · Maybe · No
Positioning

Not a dating app.

What it is

  • A utility for two people who already found each other somewhere else.
  • One link for one conversation, and then it is spent.
  • Results you can copy out as plain text, into whatever app you were already using.
  • A reusable set of answers that stays on your own device.

What it isn't

  • No browsing, no profiles, no photos, no location, no in-app chat.
  • No score, no percentage, no verdict on the two of you.
  • No account to make and no password to recover.
  • Not consent. Shared interests are a starting point, and either of you can change your mind in person.
FAQ

The bits people ask about.

Does he need the app?

No. He opens your link in whatever browser is already on his phone, answers there, and closes the tab. No download, no account, no name.

Who sees the results?

You both do, and you both see the same list: the answers you both gave. Neither of you ever sees the other’s full sheet, and the person answering is told who receives the result before the first question.

What happens to a no?

Nothing. If only one of you said yes, neither of you hears about it. A no is never shown, never counted against you and never hinted at.

Can he work out what I skipped?

No. Your results only list what you both want. Nothing that isn't mutual is shown or counted, and skipping a question looks exactly like answering no.

Is this a consent form?

No. It is a way to start the conversation with the awkward part already done. Anything either of you agreed to in an app can be taken back in person.

How long does a link last?

One link is for one conversation and takes one set of answers. An invitation nobody answers expires seven days after it was made, and you make a fresh one next time.

Where are my own answers kept?

On your own phone. There is no account, no sync and no recovery, so changing your answers only affects the links you send after that.

Send one link. Skip the whole conversation.

App Store — not releasedGoogle Play — not released

The app will keep your reusable answers. The person you send to needs nothing. Invitations are not available yet.